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Okay so here it goes..

I have this ex of mine.

We go way back.
After not talking for a period of time (2 months)
we start hanging out again..

well the past couple of nights...
we ended up camping out in a tent, car wat not,

and when were laying down at night
he'll run his fingers through my hair massage my hand,
kiss my head, and get really close to me,
and do stuff like that,

but we just started hanging out again

and i dont know wat too do or say

does this mean he likes me?????

cuz i really like him

im just a bit on the shy side

if anyone can give me some advice to wat this could mean,
cuz i dont know how to take it..

so yeah any advice would be appreciated..
04-26-2009 11:01 PM
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Body Language theories seem to say that kisses on the forehead, nose, chin (basically...not lips/non-sexual) insinuate more than simple physical attraction and are signs of a more involved relationship. While I would say that this is not necessarily, nor always true, given the context you described, it sounds like he's interested in you.

That completely aside, though, if you're interested in him (despite your past, whatever, etc.) then I think it's worth asking him out again, if just for a date. At the very least, you'll be able to get a chance to talk to him and give him the opportunity to rekindle things with you.

I've learned from numerous past mistakes that, when interested in someone, not dropping hints or simply coming out and saying it leave the loose-ends and what-ifs hanging around. I'd imagine that there's more to the situation since you two broke up (I'd assume at least...), but from what I'm hearing, it sounds like it would be a safe bet to say that he still likes you.
04-26-2009 11:38 PM
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Listen to everything Mage has send.

But also,be careful. I don't know if hes all player/cheater type. but, He could be leading you on. Just don't rush into it.but like what Mage said,the simple kisses probably mean he just missed you and still has feelings.

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04-27-2009 12:06 AM
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Thanks Mage and Geosbabe

I really appreciate the advice.
I just dont want to misread anything

so its the small kisses that really do mean more..
i mean
we went out when we were 16 and then
went back out from when were 17/18

we go way back

and i love him.
04-27-2009 02:52 PM
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Is he the type of guy that would cheat and hurt you?
I don't mean to be like nosy or anything.

But yeah,it sounds like hes a good guy and just still likes you and everything. Small kisses mean more,shows he likes you and he just likes to be with you and show emotion..not like a lot of people where all they want to do is suck on your face making out all the time. hes showing it in a more loving sweet way. (:
good luck!! i hope it works out for you! Smile

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04-27-2009 10:27 PM
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I think you just need to ask. doesnt hurt a thing.

I know I dont know the guy, but I would be worried he was just using you since he probably knows you like him still.

04-28-2009 04:02 AM
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