One of my good friends..i love her..I'm not as close as i used to be tho..So another sortof friend that is supposilly her Best friend is constintly talking behind her back..saying that she secretly hates her and that she's a dead tree..Should i tell my friend..? I don't want to cause any drama between them but i feel bad not doing anything..and i'm afriad that she will get mad cause i didn't do anything..what should i do?

you should tell her friend to not talk bad about your friend to you. I would think if you just went and told the other friend this girl was talking shit, the friend would lie and say she didnt, or worse say you were right along with her.

so I would just tell her to stop talking badly about your friend around her. and if that pisses her off, oh well.

tell her to face ur other friend and tell her that she hate her... tell her just like u r my friend she is my friend too and i dont want any one to talk behind her back......... cuz if u kept silent u'll not be a real friend... like u agree on what she is saying on your other friend..

The best way is that you should indirectly sign about this matter. As a friend you have the liability to aware about this matter. If your friend can not understand directly then at the end you should talk face to face about it.

Friend talking behind another friends back is not a good habit. Friend are those in which i believing blindly. So it is so ridicules situation. So you and your girl friend hurt so much. So first of all you talk with your girl friend. Never gives important on others talk who talk behinds us. Because that type of people have no any other work.

well...

you could tell her. That means you are her first line of defense, and if she breaks down or anything, you better start comforting.

OR

you could just wait a week and let the gossip travel. either way, she is going to find out. just a matter of time.

Back lash is the most hateful phenomenon.

I Don't like this kind of thing really i hate this thing to say for some Behind them.Its very Bad manners If You are true Friend then say on the face what You want to say.

I can understand friend are the best part of life ,if they do like this we can bare ,if the friend is talking back of your friend then tell us that don't spread your friend secret to all or wan your friend about the friend that the friend spreading all secret of yours.

(This post was last modified: 08-23-2010 07:13 AM by jupiterpitter.)